I've decided to run with the "5 hazards of..." and make it a sort of Series. :) That said, here are the 5 hazards of having lived overseas:

2. If you still have friends after snobbing it up at the restaurants (LOL), you can irritate them further by commenting how much the weather or landscape or that building reminds you of your former home overseas, or how much you miss going to xyz. It's not our fault--those are just former homes to us, just as you might mention memories of the place you grew up or how your mom did something. But somehow it comes off as bragging when it involves somewhere "exotic," and once again we sound like snobs, even when we truly have no intention of doing so.

4. It becomes harder to clean out your old things, because you never want to get rid of those items that remind you of your former home. :) It's sentimental value, yes, which is something we share with everyone, but it's more than that. When a break a coffee cup, it's no big deal to get another one. But when am I ever going to go to another Christmas market in Cochem, Germany? I can't possibly throw out THAT cup; we must try to fix it!! I don't care if that pen is dry, it says Okutama on it in japanese and I'll never ever be able to get another like it! No honey, don't open that last bottle of wine--it's the very last one from Georgia (the Country, not the State!).

5. You will miss it forever. A little bit of different States in the U.S. will "rub off" on you as well, of course, but most States aren't as much different from one another as the other Countries where we have lived... and they are much easier to revisit. Many Americans who have lived overseas will never again step on the soil of that other Nation that was their home for a time. And of course even if you do, it won't be the same. Then again, neither are you the same. And that makes it worth it all.
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